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FOR CO-PARENTS

The schedule you agreed on, and every change to it, in one place.

Tego keeps the normal week, marks anything different as a change, and asks the other parent to agree before it becomes real. No re-litigating text messages.

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Free for the other parent. Nothing of your life is shared but the schedule.

HOW A CHANGE ACTUALLY GOES
REQUESTED

You ask for 5:00 instead of 6:00

One Friday only. Nothing on the calendar moves yet.

DECISION

They get two taps

"Works for me" or "Doesn't work." No essay required, no negotiation thread.

CHANGED

Both phones say 5:00 — and who agreed

If nobody answers, it quietly stays 6:00. Silence is never read as yes.

THE DAY THIS FIXES

Fridays, without the argument

THE NORMAL

Set it once

Alternating weeks, 2-2-3, every other weekend — pick the template and the handoff. Tego does the calendar math.

A CHANGE

Ask, don't announce

Propose a new time and scope it to once or ongoing. It stays a request until the other parent answers.

THE RECORD

One version of events

Every request, agreement, decline and override is timestamped and attributed. Both of you see the same history.

WHY IT DOESN'T MAKE THINGS WORSE

Designed for the low-trust case, not the friendly one

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Agreement is required and visible. Shared changes need a yes. What was agreed and what wasn't are different words, permanently.
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Emergencies still work. A sick kid can't wait for a vote. You can change it anyway — it just gets marked not agreed, with your reason attached.
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No neutral-sounding blame. Copy is factual on both phones. Nothing nags, scores or implies who's being difficult.
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Nothing else leaks. One shared area. Your home, your notes, your new partner, your location — none of it is in there.
WHAT THE OTHER PARENT SEES
✓ Your child's schedule and handoffs
✓ Change requests, either direction
✓ Items you share to that area
✕ Your household, notes or other people
✕ Anything outside the shared area
✕ Your location or activity

They don't have to sign up for it to work

You can run the schedule alone from day one. If you invite them, their side is free — sponsored by your plan — and limited to the one shared area.

Stop arguing about what was said.

Set the normal week, then let every change carry its own record. Three minutes to start; nothing shared until you decide.

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